Some men want to dominate their women. They want to own them and have them do as they are told, particularly in the sex department. But what happens when that man is more of a nurturer than a sadist?
He will often fall into the role of “Daddy Dom”. He interacts with her in the subcategory of “Daddy” within the lifestyle of Dominance and submission (D/s). In this specific DOM/sub subcategory the male dominant is called “Daddy”, and the female submissive (sub) is called “girl”, “little girl”, or “babygirl”, etc. (To be crystal clear, in no way does a Daddy DOM or his Little Girl support roleplay incest or encourage pedophilia as part of the Daddy DOM lifestyle. Most Daddy DOMs and their girls prefer to avoid the term “daughter”, which implies incest. Daddy DOMs and their girls have no interest in endorsing this concept in any way.)
Daddy Doms are Dominants who simply assume a much more nurturing and caring role than Dominants in other types of D/s relationships. They are just like other Dominants and Masters but with 1 or 2 key differences. They still take charge and enjoy being in control but they often enforce different kinds of rules. Daddy Doms will more likely focus on their submissive’s personal growth and goals. As her Daddy, Coach, Sir, Mentor, and number one fan, the Daddy Dom often believes in his Little Girl more than she herself does, and often uses the wisdom of his age to see her not only for who she is, but also for who she can become. Another difference is that Daddy Doms not only accept, but actually value and treasure, their submissive’s inner “little”, encouraging their sub to enter and even live in ‘little space’, to play and to explore and enjoy their childlike side.
Being a Daddy Dom is simply a part of someone’s personality. He likes being a dominant but he likes doing to in a more affectionate and nurturing capacity than is the accepted norm for D/s lifestyle relationships. Daddy Doms enjoy, appreciate, and find both the little and adult sides of their submissives attractive. littles appeal to them because they cater to his desires to nurture, protect, and love. He also enjoys the natural, child-like little girl personality in a beautiful adult woman’s body.
Daddy Doms put their babygirl’s needs at the top of their priority list. A Daddy Dom will do everything he can to help his little girl be the best person she can be. He may spoil her, but he doesn’t let her get away with being a brat. Sometimes this means he will punish her, not for the enjoyment of the punishment, but because it is for her own good. A Daddy’s little girl is his pride and joy and he does what he can to make her feel special and cherished.
Littles are simply adult women with a naturally childlike personality that emerges when they are around an emotionally mature man who nurtures, protects, and loves them. Littles in a DD/lg relationship are not interested in incest! She is submissive by nature, seeking the guidance, domination and nurturing love of a Daddy Dom who will guide, protect and comfort her when the world becomes too much to handle. She respects him, submits to his will and trusts him completely to keep her safe and love her. She will always do her best to please him.
A Daddy Dom’s unconditional acceptance and energy surges when he is in contact with his little girl. In response, her innocence and joy emerges. Sexually, this combination can be both deeply loving and endlessly exciting.